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奇葩说

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在看奇葩说,是以前的室友介绍的。这个节目很精彩,原因是每个人都说得很有理,然后思想也会不一样。 最近在工作上都很心烦,感觉很压力。是老板,是周围的环境。同事都很好,但大家都离开了。知道吗?我超爱我的同事,每个人都很好,对我很好。 “chloe,你不要忘记安排时间”。 “Chloe,你的热水在桌子上,今早泻肚子了是吗” 是我亲爱的caden 哥哥,和我同年的一个男生。最帅的就是他了哈哈哈,我说他一见面是酷的三天后就变成小孩哈哈。 去了roshard的生日派对,那晚惊喜连连。 “你们有人要陪我出门吗?” 他问。 哦们每个人都说有约,因为那天是星期五。然后慢慢的,一个一个出现,把他给感动了。他是一个温暖的男生,只要我不开心,他都看得出。 还有一班女神,每个人的性格都不一样。但,每个人相处起来是开心的。 做工了几个月,看到了很多很多不同的事情。不知道谁留言说,我那么早熟,不像90后。可是你知道吗,当我遇到比我更强的姐姐时,我也会变成小妹妹。哈哈 虽然工作上很烦心,但还是很感激这一切的发生。当事情很糟糕时,当你成功熬过时,你会觉得自己很厉害。加油
那時的我,把注意力放在預防失誤,而不是如何把事情做好,」 如果只在乎「不要犯錯」,就無法專注在「做得更好」。把眼光放遠,別被眼前的挫折擊倒,才能堅持到最後,表現最好的一面。  <所有來到你身邊的事,只要你相信,那都會是好事>

Lack of emotion

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Whenever we try to shut off close down or avoid certain emotions, the problem is that everything else can get shut down as well. It’s not like there’s one dial for happiness, another for sadness, and yet another for anger. We either feel our emotions or we don’t. If you want your positive emotions back, you will have to open up to the negative ones and work through them. The reasons why we shut down emotions are all based on fear, but with different variations. We may be afraid of hurting somebody else or we may be afraid that if we show our anger we’ll be negatively judged for it. We judge that we should have gotten over something from the past, but when there are still feelings left, we’re afraid that something’s wrong with us that we haven’t “gotten over” something. There are many more faces you can put on fear, including the one you mentioned, where you're afraid of people disappointing you, so you close down instead. Your feelings of loving are suppressed because of...

忘了

你忘了你的初衷了吗? 请坚持,雨后一定会有彩虹. Never give up, and be confident in what you do. There may be tough times, but the difficulties which you face will make you more determined to achieve your objectives and to win against all the odds.-  Marta

感叹

有太多太多的感叹,好像感觉老了。 冲劲,还在。 梦想,还在。 热忱,还在。 这样就足够了,是吗?

i'm back

Found back my password finally. Went through a lot of ups and down recently but everything goes well now :)  My graduation day would be on 19th March, this coming Sunday but I feel nothing anyway.  I feel grateful that I found a job in Singapore. I got my job in my first interview and the company which I wanted to work for. YEAHHHHH Life still goes on, right? Be positive and be happy. I am on my way to achieve my goal now :) 
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一盏床头灯再配上oliva ong 的歌曲,忽然感觉没有那么的压力了。 实习时一直出入健身房,身材挺好的。可是最近被医生禁止了,是我的腰部受伤了,需要一段时间来就医。肚腩好像越来越大,超怕有天就要大过我的胸部了。 最近戒掉了三合一咖啡,我可是用了好多好多的意志力来戒掉这不良的爱好。嗯,感觉挺好的。教练说喝多了三合一的饮料,肚腩会越来越大。 人生所遭遇的壞事不一定都得急著丟掉,留在心裡沈澱著也好,有時它會給你些警惕,而你將不再只停留在那舒適區。 嗯,这叙述着现在的我。 * Sorry bro, causing so many problems for you . * * hahaha, i wouldn't want you to miss anything of my wedding * 终于,在你的婚礼上成了你老婆的姐妹们。离别前,你把我抱得很紧,说了i will miss you chloe. 没有任何的爱慕和暧昧在其中,只是一段很纯很纯的友谊。眼泪在打转,谢谢你成为了我的好哥儿。 祝你幸福。