那時的我，把注意力放在預防失誤，而不是如何把事情做好，」 如果只在乎「不要犯錯」，就無法專注在「做得更好」。把眼光放遠，別被眼前的挫折擊倒，才能堅持到最後，表現最好的一面。 <所有來到你身邊的事，只要你相信，那都會是好事>
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Lack of emotion
Whenever we try to shut off close down or avoid certain emotions, the problem is that everything else can get shut down as well. It’s not like there’s one dial for happiness, another for sadness, and yet another for anger. We either feel our emotions or we don’t. If you want your positive emotions back, you will have to open up to the negative ones and work through them. The reasons why we shut down emotions are all based on fear, but with different variations. We may be afraid of hurting somebody else or we may be afraid that if we show our anger we’ll be negatively judged for it. We judge that we should have gotten over something from the past, but when there are still feelings left, we’re afraid that something’s wrong with us that we haven’t “gotten over” something. There are many more faces you can put on fear, including the one you mentioned, where you're afraid of people disappointing you, so you close down instead. Your feelings of loving are suppressed because of...
忘了
你忘了你的初衷了吗? 请坚持,雨后一定会有彩虹. Never give up, and be confident in what you do. There may be tough times, but the difficulties which you face will make you more determined to achieve your objectives and to win against all the odds.- Marta
i'm back
Found back my password finally. Went through a lot of ups and down recently but everything goes well now :) My graduation day would be on 19th March, this coming Sunday but I feel nothing anyway. I feel grateful that I found a job in Singapore. I got my job in my first interview and the company which I wanted to work for. YEAHHHHH Life still goes on, right? Be positive and be happy. I am on my way to achieve my goal now :)
一盏床头灯再配上oliva ong 的歌曲，忽然感觉没有那么的压力了。 实习时一直出入健身房，身材挺好的。可是最近被医生禁止了，是我的腰部受伤了，需要一段时间来就医。肚腩好像越来越大，超怕有天就要大过我的胸部了。 最近戒掉了三合一咖啡，我可是用了好多好多的意志力来戒掉这不良的爱好。嗯，感觉挺好的。教练说喝多了三合一的饮料，肚腩会越来越大。 人生所遭遇的壞事不一定都得急著丟掉，留在心裡沈澱著也好，有時它會給你些警惕，而你將不再只停留在那舒適區。 嗯，这叙述着现在的我。 * Sorry bro, causing so many problems for you . * * hahaha, i wouldn't want you to miss anything of my wedding * 终于，在你的婚礼上成了你老婆的姐妹们。离别前，你把我抱得很紧，说了i will miss you chloe. 没有任何的爱慕和暧昧在其中，只是一段很纯很纯的友谊。眼泪在打转，谢谢你成为了我的好哥儿。 祝你幸福。
成熟
许多人所谓的成熟，不过是被习俗磨去了棱角，变得世故而实际了。 那不是成熟，而是精神的早衰和个性的消亡。 真正的成熟，应当是独特个性的形成，真实自我的发现， 精神上的结果和丰收。 从这个角度来看，成熟是另一种形式的幼稚与天真。 所谓的大人模样，是个人适应社会需求的产物。 真正成熟的人，不会轻易把心里的那个小孩丢掉。 我们都是扮演大人的玩偶，把玩偶服脱掉，里面是否依旧是当年那个肉嘟嘟的孩子。