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成熟

许多人所谓的成熟,不过是被习俗磨去了棱角,变得世故而实际了。 那不是成熟,而是精神的早衰和个性的消亡。 真正的成熟,应当是独特个性的形成,真实自我的发现, 精神上的结果和丰收。  从这个角度来看,成熟是另一种形式的幼稚与天真。 所谓的大人模样,是个人适应社会需求的产物。 真正成熟的人,不会轻易把心里的那个小孩丢掉。 我们都是扮演大人的玩偶,把玩偶服脱掉,里面是否依旧是当年那个肉嘟嘟的孩子。

我不完美,但我很美

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回到了这里,心里还真他妈的感慨。稍微看回了以前的文章,惊讶的是以前的我还蛮感性。 那天你来找我,等了我两个小时吧? 四年不见的我们,得确让我有点紧张。那天晚上,你还是一如往常的滔滔不绝,而我还是像当初一样的当了你的聆听者。不同的是,感觉。是我变了,当初的爱慕者变成了现在的朋友。谢谢你amos, 离别后的信息确实很温暖。如果当初我们真的在一起,或许就不会有现在的我了。 常常爱和男友开玩笑的说,我不完美但我很美。哈哈! 很臭美,对吧? 而他,总是听后说了:“你很自恋啊”。 然而后来会说:“你很完美也很美。” 身为一个女友,这应该是很崇高的赞美了。我脸上有痘痘也有疤痕,我没有很好的身材也没有一头乌黑亮丽的秀发。不过老实说,追我的人得确不少哈哈哈。想想,应该是自信的女人会比较漂亮吧?妈妈常说,只要你的个性好,你开朗,笑多点,人缘自然会好。也许,我是一直秉持着这个原则走下去的。 前几天参加了好友的求婚party,他是一个非常有个性到别人讨厌的男生。但,我就很喜欢。 也许因为我们太投缘,这个友谊就维持到了现在。要好好幸福的走下去,知道吗?离别前,还亲手做给我这个。谢谢你,亲爱的哥哥。

beautiful song

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Lovely and beautiful song :) 

如果

不知道如何来回应你四年里对我的喜欢。你的一切一切,都感觉很美好。如果那时候你也像现在那样的成熟了,或许我们早就在一起了。如果如果。。有很多的如果,我不敢想象。 你的喜欢,我心领了。男朋友对我很好,非常有耐心。

咖啡

你会不会忽然的出现,在街角的咖啡店,我会带着笑脸,和你寒暄,不去说从前,只是寒暄,对你说一句,只是说一句,好久不见…我一直都在幻想这样的情景。咖啡,总能让我联想好多。如果用爱情来比喻,那 爱情不像喝啤酒,有一大桌人, 爱情 应该像喝咖啡,一个人在角落安静地品尝。我喜欢咖啡,喜欢它的香味,喜欢咖啡的苦与甜,喜欢它在适当的时候给予我不同的感觉。咖啡对于我,就是有如此的魔力。

My very first and last event

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Heyyyy, is TEDxUTAR!! This is my first event in the campus and also the first TEDx in UTAR. I got selected by them to join this event as a committee. Gained so much and freaking tired throughout the whole process too.  Currently addicted to this book, got it for rm18 only. Why men love bitches? Do you feel like you are too nice? Learn from this book.  This author actually delivered a unique perspective as to why men attracted to strong women. Sherry Argove encourages women who feel like doormats to develop a sense of independence. She is not teaching you to become a bitch but it will put you in the better state of mind instead. 

Love letter

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What's love is actually for me? When he appears, you will smile. That's the meaning of love for me. And.. It has been almost 3 years now. Glad that we are still holding our hand together, discovering the future together. To be honest, we had gone through a lot of obstacles for these few years. Different personality and different thought, maybe this is the reason to keep us attracted to each other? I have no idea how far we can go in the future, but I always told you that I appreciate the moment to be with you now.  I am adventurous, wild and love to interact with people while you are totally different. Sometimes I am wondering, prolly due to you had gone through a lot of things than me in Perth? You had been gone through the craziest moment in your past so you tend to chase after peaceful life now. I wish that my life could be like yours sometimes, at least I wanted to go through all these moments at the age of 24. Last week, I had a mini meltdown because I was ov...